The Making of a Happy New Year

As 2010 is now behind us, I look forward to leaving the old behind and creating the new. New Years wishes are not just wishes and hopes for fate to fall our way. Many wait for good things to happen to them and when something "bad" happens they feel like they have bad luck or are a victim. Whether or not we have a Happy New Year or not depends on who we are and who we want to become.

We do not have control over what happens to us. We can however, choose how we respond. We have a choice to reject acting out of fear or anger. Reaction is based upon survival. People get sick, people who we love die, failures occur, relationships are not always healthy. When we feel the emotions involved with these events, we feel angry, hurt, rejected, alienated, lonely, and unhappy. The truth is that no one is being punished. We are not unloved. We are actually being asked, "Who are you? What are you made of? Are you loving others in your life? Are you loving yourself? Are you taking care of yourself?

If there is someone in your life that is ill, have or can you reach out to them. What is your relationship to them like? What can you to make it better? Has someone in your life died or near death? Death is actually part of life. We want to push it away and defeat it. When it hurts us in some way we feel cheated. We feel lost. But we are not lost. Our loved one is not lost. We do however, need to find our way back to ourselves and who we are. Our loved one is still with us, though we may now need to depend upon ourselves now more without their direct input.

Likewise, if you have failed at something in your life, you are not a failure. You are not being punished. You have not reached your full level of strength yet, but you are getting stronger.

There are many steps to success. Take another step, gather your strength and resolve and move forward. If your relationship(s) are not fulfilling, again, you are being asked are you making it all you can? What has or hasn't happened in this relationship. Take a step to learn the lesson here. Find your truth in it and move forward to your happiness.

We are not here to be perfect but we are here to become more whole and happy. What steps can you take to be more whole and happy this year? Make it so.

With the LifeLine technique, I can guide you to find the answers you seek. The answers are within you, not me. Anything is possiblie, just take a chance, believe, and move forward. For a session, please do not hesitate to ask how a LifeLine can help you. Consultation is free.

With love and light,

Debbie

Certified LifeLine Practitioner

630-730-1228

Hope, Love, Joy

Hope, Love, Joy. That is what I am feeling today. As the celebration of Christmas with loved ones was shared, I find myself feeling contented. But the contentment that I am feeling is leaving me with a desire to reach out and share the feelings of hope, love and joy. I do not however, want to share or convince others that my hope, love and joy are what is right for them. I DO want to help them to find the hope, love and joy within their own soul. Your spirit always beckons to you to awaken to the the beauty that is within you. Often we feel separated from that part of us. Do not be fooled. The beauty may be hidden under a blanket of loss, hurt, pain, anger. But the fear that you may be hurt again is holding you back from allowing yourself to feel that hope, love and joy again.

Today, you can choose to listen to your spirit. Start to dissolve the walls that are keeping you from experiencing the joy of life again. The past is behind you. Awaken to the present moment, allow yourself to heal from the past and move forward in hope. You can begin to create a life of love and joy. You can feel it happening right now as you read this. Give yourself this most wonderful gift. Life lived each moment with happiness and joy. Breathe in hope and love. Doesn't that feel better?

Debbie,

Certified LifeLine Practitioner

630-730-1228

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Peace, love, contentment

It is Christmas Eve and all is quiet. There is a gentle light snow falling outside. A feeling of peace, love and contentment is in the air. I send peace, love, hope to you. Believe in the unlimited possibilities the universe offers to us all. We only have to open to it and believe that we are worthy. You are, you know. You were created and will always be pure love and light. It is only your denial of that truth that makes you see yourself differently. You were born an innocent loving little baby, a little vessel, so anxious to love and be loved. We are here to love and to be loved. May you awaken to the love that you really are, your true self, which is always letting you know that you are pure love.

Anytime you feel any sort of discontent, unhappiness, pain, stress of challenge that is your signal that you are out of alignment with your true self and your call or opportunity to make it right again. I truly, truly wish to offer my services as a LifeLine Practitioner to help you to find and reclaim that part of you. To guide you to become whole, peaceful and purposefully happy in your life.

Blessings to each of you.

Debbie

Certified LifeLine Practitioner

630-730-1228

(phone sessions available)

Also ask about a sliding fee scale as global economies differ.

Giving from the Heart!!

One week till Christmas. As I reflect on years past, I recall smiles, joy and excitement! The anticipation of giving joy to someone. Letting them know in a tangible way that I want them to experience fun, joy and happiness and love.

It is in giving that we receive. It is in loving that we experience love. The spirit of the Season is just that. Love is an action of giving and of sharing from your heart to another. It is that easy. The gift is not a reflection of how much money was spent. When we tune in to another's desire we can give that to them in some way. We are showing love.

The best gifts, I truly believe are those that have meaning behind them. One year, as a young child, I remember my mom was on a diet and I wanted to give her a gift she could use. I went to the grocery store and bought her some nice red apples! They fit my budget, and showed my love and desire for her dreams to come true. It was my sentiment represented in a loving way.

My youngest daughter was the first to put gifts under our tree this year. She has not gone to the store. Money has nothing to do with her gifts. I do not know what is there physically. But I do know there is a piece of her heart wrapped to each one of us. It may be her favorite toy, or something she knows one of us can use or would like. They may be something she drew, painted or made. And in her purely loving spirit they are pure love. Her joy, and little explanation of "I knew you would like this, or you can use this when" is a true gift of giving.

Perhaps, each of us can consider ways to do the same in our lives. Is there a way, you can give in a very substantial way something that another would really appreciate? Maybe it is their favorite meal, cookie, pie or special family recipe cooked to perfection. Perhaps it is something of yours that they have always admired. Maybe it is a developing or deeper relationship. There are many who would love to have company or a visit. Is there a family member or friend that you have neglected to nurture in your relationship together. Offer to bring lunch, ask them to go to lunch or shopping. Take a routine activity and make it fun. Offer to start going for a walk together daily or once a week. Make a weekly date to get together. Imagine the possibilities. You will be creating the same anticipation of Christmas day any day of the year. Who is the giver? Who is the receiver? :) I believe just as on Christmas Morning, true joy, love and everlasting memories of comfort and joy can be shared any day of the year!

Some truths are right in front of us, yet we do may still not see them. We appear to be blinded by our perspective which seems to repeat itself over and over. Just like the math problem that we redo over and over, getting the same result but the wrong answer. Life can be that way too.

We may be aware that something is not right. The first impulse is to look at others in our life or environment and point a finger of blame. We resist our perceived reality, because it is not what we consciously desire. We want to run from it, hide from it, or escape it.

This truth may appear to have many faces: obesity, addiction, lonliness, depression, grief, unhappiness with relationship(s) or job/career. But those are really masks. What is behind the mask is the real truth. You believe the mask is real. And become a victim of what it appears to show you.

Often we try to deny or change who we are to fit the situation or emotion that we are feeling. We want an easy answer, a magic pill. We believe that if we "tough it out" things will get better or improve. We believe that it is happening to us from the outside. We do not want to take responsibility for the choices that we have made or not made to get us to this point. Now we realize where we are and cry out for injustice. We may often believe that something is wrong with us and may begin a cycle of self abuse that makes us feel even worse.

Consider, for a moment, what would it be like to honor those emotions and truths that are being revealed to you. Could it be that they are a gift from yourself to awaken you to what you are denying within yourself; that you are loveable, powerful, and beautiful. Have you been afraid to allow yourself to be that worthy of love, purpose and power? The truth or reality is yours to accept. Not as a declaration of future but of past and present moment. Name it. What is it for you?

Now, how does that make you feel about yourself? What is it telling you that has or has not happened to bring you to this present truth? You have already agreed that you do not want this as truth. I'll pick the first one on the list. Obesity. You think obesity is your truth because that is what you see. But that is only the veil, hiding the truth behind what the obesity is here to teach you. Your truth is not obesity, it is the pattern of behavior that you have been hiding behind to prevent you to become the happy confident person you are meant to be. What are you afraid of? What is it that you choose to deny or fail to pursue? What is your passion? How would you create the ideal you? What is holding you back from beginning that journey?

Your real truth is your spirit waiting for you to answer the call to be happy, fulfilled and full of life. When you are not in this state of bliss, you are given false realities to help you reclaim and discover who you really are, a spirit of pure love and light.

Do you want to move into the present moment to let go of your past, honor all that has brought you to this space and move forward to a better more empowered and happier you? Can you imagine?

I challenge you to honor yourself to face the parts if you and your life that you judge and do not like. What is the real truth behind what they are presenting you with?

I would be honored to work with you and guide you through this journey. As a Certified LifeLine Practitioner, I can help you get in touch with your desires. It is my calling to nurture and love. It is my purpose to learn to honor, love and walk as one with all, creating balance and harmony.

Debbie

Certified LifeLine Practitioner

630-730-1228

I want to share an experience with you. Last week I woke on Friday morning to find that I was too tired to get up. So the family all got up and ready on their own and I stayed in bed. The day went on and I found myself so consumed with fatigue that I could barely get up. After lunch I got up had something to eat and drink. As I focused on my emotions I just wanted to cry. An hour or so later I went to lay down again. When my husband, Ryan came home, he did a session with me. He is also a Certified LifeLine Practitioner. He combined it with other techniques he knows.

I gave the fatigue a voice. Many feelings that I had been suppressing emerged. Isolation, stressed, overwhelmed, frustrated, burdened, pushed away, ignored were some that came up. At the bottom of this pile was a general feeling of unloved and unappreciated, being dumped on. It all made perfect sense to me. I felt relief. An awareness and acknowledgement of where I was opened the door to moving forward. As I accepted that these were a part of me, I realized that my need to sleep was a way of my body saying take care of yourself. Snuggled in the comfort under the covers allowed me the space to regroup. The next morning I slept in again.

When I got up, one of my sons and husband began to make family breakfast. We all had a very nice conversation (it was not about me and how I felt, either) and meal. Then we all began to work at cleaning the house together. There was no resistance or anger or complaining. Everyone took responsibility for helping. There was teamwork, co-operation and love being offered and shared. Later, Ryan bought and prepared a scrumptious dinner and dessert. We all enjoyed the feelings of accomplishment and working together. It has been several days, and the feelings of working together has remained.

I am no longer feeling burdened. Allowing myself to voice how I was feeling and nurture myself was a catalyst for the whole family. We have all had a better week, been less stressed and enjoyed our space and each other more.

I am glad I have the tools and knowledge to work through symptoms. It has had a wonderful ripple effect for the family as well. I really cannot overemphasize how powerful the LifeLine Technique really is. I went from emotions at a high stress to none. Actually, quite the opposite, now I feel empowered, very happy and blessed. Our family is celebrating each other and working as a unit. Wow!

I so want to share this with you I am offering a session to you for half off. I also want to let you know that I offer a sliding scale. Inquire for details.

Love and Light to all.

Debbie

The Divine Matrix

In our lives we often become separated from source. We feel we need to control everything and that we have so much to do. Being disconnected from others or perceiving to be disconnected leaves us feeling alone and overwhelmed. We may believe no one really understands what we are going through or are experiencing. Are you focusing on your stresses, pain, or challenges? Are you stuck and unhappy about some or many aspects of your life? You are not really separated from source. There really is no pain. Welcome to the Divine Matrix.

Pain, stress, challenges or even busyness are like stories we can read in a book. They are chapters trying to get our attention. If we know how to listen, we can learn, process and awaken to a greater truth and reality.

You see, my friends, life is like that. A Divine Matrix of energy. We are all part of that energy. We often feel separate from others or things around us. There is a heartbeat to all life, like one big organism. Connect to life as one large universe (entity). We each are part of it, like a star, moon or planet. We are just a different form of life. So there is really no separation at all. We are all part of the universe. We are created by a source of Divine Love. We are part of the divine love. :)

If you would like a LifeLine Session, send me an e-mail and I will contact you. You may also call if you would like. I would be honored to work with you to create a new reality for your life! :)

Debbie Gagala

Certified LifeLine Practitioner

630-730-1228