Pay it Forward

There are no co-incidences. A couple of nights ago I watched the movie "Pay it Forward" I highly recommend it. It was a subtle message to me regarding my fears and my ability to move forward with change. I know with my whole heart and soul that there are still changes, I want in my life. I keep moving toward these changes. I have made many discoveries and movements forward and am much closer to attaining my goals. I can see it, I can feel it, and I am determined to live my life to my full potential. I am here to love myself and others and also to allow them to love themselves and those in their lives.

Everything comes down to this: In connecting to and giving love to others, we also receive love. In loving others, we learn to love ourselves. That is not always an easy thing to do. Many of us are uncomfortable loving ourselves. Often our environments and the people in our lives have not had the ability to love. Their environments also did not know how to give or receive love. Does this mean that they did not love. No. What it means is that each of us, our environments and our ancestors have loved us the best way they knew how. There have been patterns of unhealthy relationships that continue to move from generation to generation. What I know, that I want to share with you is that those limiting beliefs that you have been holding do not have to continue. The fears, unworthiness, feelings or inadequacy, pain or inability to love ourselves can be faced and overcome. You do not have to accept them you can let go of them. They are not serving you. Are they? You can find the root cause of these feelings, and begin to really love who you are. The you that you were meant to be. The free, joyful, excited, exhuberant, loving spirit that you were born to be.

Untill we really learn how to love ourselves, we cannot really love others. I want my children to live their lives free of my burdens, mistakes and my inabilities to love myself. I choose love. I choose each day to live my best, to go through the pain and fears that I carry so that I do not pass them on. My children deserve better. As a parent,m I can say this with my entire being. I WANT the best always for theml. Guess what, I deserve better too. So I learn to love myself. I have learned how to forgive myself and nurture those parts of me that have not always felt nurtured. This is something that I have to choose everyday. If I am feeling discontent with some part of my life or who I am, I know I have a choice to connect to that part of me. Discontent, unhappiness, fears or pain are telling us we are not feeling whole and loved. They are challenges or opportunities to become whole, to become better. If you accept and walk through the emotions you feel, you will come out the other side loving yourself more and being a better person, This can be done best with a LifeLine session as it uses the subconscious and superconscious mind to connect you to the root causes of the issue. It does not involve talking through, discussing, or getting advice for problems, fears or issues. It is a very powerful tool that I can use to guide you to the life you want and to the person you really are inside. The one who is hiding, peeking out when they feel safe.

So, considering the above, I want to share some of the dialogue from "Pay it forward" with you now. This follows very well with my previous post.

"People are scared. It's hard for some people, who are so used to things the way they are, even if they are bad, to change and they kinda give up. When they do, everybody kinda loses."

So, the message coming to you today, is simply this: Are you ready to change, to reach for your dreams, live the life you really want.

Ya, that feels nice but....

Ya, that feels nice to go to that place of peace, harmony and love, but then I open my eyes and the phone rings, the children are fighting and I need to run errands or go to work. Where is the peace, love and harmony in all of this.

Here is where your real journey begins. By looking at the reality of your life. But what is reality and what is your perception? I'm sure you are like, "What?" Stay with me here. Your reality (perception) is how you have been choosing to look at the events and people in your life. The reality you have created is one of judgement. You judge, the fighting, errands, and interruptions as interferring with your peace, harmony and love. That perception is different from the reality of absolute truth.

Our perception of reality in this life as we have been traditionally taught begins when we begin our life in physical form. We become part of our environment, our family and the culture we are born into. Our subconscious and unconscious minds are in control of our body in our very earliest parts of our life. When our conscious mind, starts to take shape, we begin judging what we like or don't based on how we are feeling about what is happening around us. We start to learn patterns of belief and behavior based on what we are learning from our experiences and those around us. We mimick what we see. If what we see or experience is not desireable or we don't know how to cope with it our subconscious mind takes that experience and files it away. We deny the pain, but continue the behavior over and over without thinking about what we are doing. This pattern of denying our pain and fears is what you will be choosing to face. ALL CHANGE BEGINS WITH A CHOICE. A conscioius choice. What I am going to ask you to begin doing is to focus on your emotions and how you feel. Not your thoughts but your feelings.

Let's go back to finding peace, harmony and love in our daily life. Tell me how you feel. Don't tell me, I have a headache and this is not fun. Got that. The bottom line here, is that you are not feeling love, or loved. You are feeling stressed, used and anxious. You feel like harmony is on an island that you woud have to take a boat or plane to get to. Not true.

These feelings and events allow you the opportunity to see in a very real way that you are out of balance and that you need to bring balance back into your life.

I feel soooooo very blessed that I have met one of the most genuine and loving people on our planet. That is a very huge statement, I know. I am speaking of a person, a friend, a healer, who lives his life from his soul and spirit. He lives from Love, free from judgement. By studying and practiciing with many Dr.'s, masters, philosophers, shaman, he has tied many different truths and realities, practiced for centuries into one effective tool, the LifeLine Technique. That person is Dr. Darren Weissman, author of "Infininte Love & Gratitude." My life changed when I met him. I now see life differently. My belief systems have changed and I now understand much more about how life and our universe really works. As such, I became a certified LifeLine practitioner. Using LifeLine and Infinite Love and Gratitude, I can work with you to help you to acheive that balance. Your body mind and spirit work together in your life to create your life.

There is no way I can explain how this all works and why in this forum. In a treatment session, the experience that you have and what comes up for you is unique to you. There is no counseling or discussions of the situations or things in your life that are causing you to feel unbalanced and unloved. Those situations remain in your head. You will not ever tell me details. They are your story and stay so.

I'm going to start by giving you some new truths. I would like to invite you to purchase Dr.

Weissman's book. Go to his website (www.infinitelove&gratitude.com). Even if you choose not to I can work with you to help teach you how to transform your life.

I also invite you to go to Dr. Masuri Emoto's work with water. With his scientifically proven experiments, he has shown how our intentions can effect water molecules. The results are dramatic and will help you understand the power of the words we use and the energy we put our to those we interact with. It also helps you to understand how others have affected you in your experiences.

I am speaking my truth to you. I am not speaking from my ego. My spirit is talking with you here. I am speaking to you out of love. A love that knows that we are part of the oneness of the universe, we are all connected. We are all created of the same energy, we are part of the same energy. We are many parts, but are of the same body. We are part of the same spirit.

Welcome to a new beginning

Welcome to a new beginning. Each day is a new beginning for each of us. We are each on a journey. That journey is one of awakening and awareness. I want to share my journey with you. I also want to help you along your own journey. Each of us are unique and have our own stories and gifts. As we share our lives and energies, we allow and empower each other to grow.

I will challenge your belief systems, your dreams, your purpose for being here, where you are now and where you want to be. I will call you to define your passions and the vision you want to create for your future.

As I am going through this day, I have choices. I choose to step outside my comfort zone. That requires that I am honest with myself about my feelings, my insecurities, my weaknesses. It means that I choose not to let my feelings, insecurities and weaknesses control me. Ah, an old familiar pattern arises before me, my shadow, my ego. It has always told me I am not good enough, has taught me fear, taught me that I am not valuable. I recognize it now. But I know something now, that I have always known, but am just reconnecting with and remembering. That ego, is not me. It is who I have believed I was. It is fear.

Joy. I was created, we were all created from Love. A Love that is Pure. Connect to that power of Love. Connect to the creator, who is all loving, all knowing and all powerful. Breathe in the peace and goodness that is around you. Feel harmony and oneness with nature. Life is breathed into us. We choose whether we are going to live in fear, not believing in ourselves. Or we can choose to live our life from our own spirit and soul connected to the power and unlimited possibilities that are ours to enjoy if only we look within an feel and believe that we are love, we are loved and we are called to love one another.

I choose Love. I choose to believe that I am Love. In that identification I find oneness, peace and purity. I am Love. I am pure love. So, too, my friend, are you. You are created in love. You are loved. You are here to love. You are here to live from your spirit, your soul, not from your hurt and your pain. You can release the hurt, pain, anger and fear. Journey with me. Let me help you along your journey.