Friday, October 9, 2009

What is weighing you down?

The answer lies in your emotions. Many of us let our emotions control us. Perhaps that is because there is no recognition that you can listen to their message and choose to respond directly to them instead of running away or trying to ignore them.

Confused. Let me explain. Lets list some emotions and notice what you feel when you connect to them.

Heaviness, weighted, lighthearted, uplifted, overwhelmed, chaotic, balanced, over-sympathetic, burdened, exhausted, energized, insecure, lonely, depressed, happy.

I am going to pick one just to illustrate my point. I choose overwhelmed, because I believe many can relate to that feeling in some aspect of their lives. When you are feeling overwhelmed, notice how you feel. Do you feel full of energy or like someone is standing on your shoulders making your movements laborious and slow? Do you even try to move, or do you feel like you are drowning? As you get in touch with that feeling of being overwhelmed, notice how you respond to being overwhelmed. Do you create a list to attain your chosen goals, do you swim in the ocean of futility, or do you run to an alternate source of comfort to avoid the real issues.

Choices of alternate comfort are often sought as a means to pamper that part of us that does not want to deal with the issue. If circumstances exist that you may feel you can't keep up and you have no viable or tangible source of help (i.e: there is no one else to help me with these tasks, I am on MY OWN, I have no where to turn). A common choice is to turn to a friend, who is always a available and comforts us in a way that makes us feel immediately and momentarily good. That choice is Food.

There are chemical reactions in our bodies that create and respond to certain foods. Sugars, carbohydrates, wheat and gluten, salty snacks are among the top triggers. These foods are held in our bodies in fat cells and they carry the emotions of what we are trying to hide because we do not want to deal with them. We use these foods as an escape for comfort. But the actual emotion that we are trying to bury and forget remains with us and the use of food is only making us feel worse. The only real solution is to deal directly with the emotion and to understand what is causing it and what we can learn from it. From there we can make different choices. It is the difference between being out of control to in control. Even the most together and organized and successful person has a part of themselves that is hurt, alone or out of balance. These are not personal failures, that is a judgement that we assign to it, but is not truth. Our truth is that we can handle anything and we have the tools and strategies and the abundance available to us at all times. Our strength, our connection to our spirit, our mind and our body empower us to own and be who we are really meant to be. But that is a choice. When out of balance, we need to reconnect and recreate harmony. Harmony in our spirit (connection to the Divine), our mind (our thoughts and what we are choosing and attracting into our lives and to believe), and our body (which is a measurement of how effectively we are practicing and achieving that balance.

When we give our bodies food that is nutritious and loving providing nutrients that enrich it and allow it to thrive, we disallow the food the control us.

When we give our minds food for thought that is empowering we feel in control and ready to embrace our challenges.

When we give our spirits freedom to live and we are inspired we allow our true selves to come forth and are at our best.

By choosing these three options, we become lighter, freer, optimistic and powerful. In this way we are choosing that anything is possible and we create unlimited possibilities.

I encourage to experience a LifeLine session to uncover, release and transform the emotions that you are experiencing that are weighing you down. You can be empowered on an incredible journey where you become your best and happiest self. The weight is a symptom, asking for you to notice it and embrace its message.

Infinite Love & Gratitude,
Debbie
Certified LifeLine Practitioner
dgagala@comcast.net

Blessings in disguise.

Today, I am reminded by the words of Louise Hay, founder of Hay House and Hay House Radio.

Quote, "All we have is a thought and a thought can be changed".

Think about this for a moment. If your thoughts in this moment are not reflecting the beauty and pure love of who you are and what life offers you, then you have a conscious choice to change that thought. By changing our thoughts we bring our energy into a higher vibration and we also begin to see the real truth of who we are meant to be. If you do not feel good realize that the emotion of "not feeling good" is not resonating with your true nature of love, which is ALWAYS in and for best and highest good. So the sadness is a blessing or gift in disguise to awaken you to your true self and allow you to feel happy.

It does not always seem easy to get out of a thought pattern that does not feel good. But it can be. Confront it, head on. If you feel sad, realize, "this is not my truth." Sad is not how I want to feel therefore it is telling me I want to be happy. That is GOOD. Thank you sadness for awakening me to my truth of wanting to be happy.

What will make me happy? Let your imagination go. Visualize that happiness. See it go on for an hour, a day, a week. Feel it. Feel the possibilities in its truth.

Ask yourself, "What did or didn't happen that is causing me to feel sad?" Cry if you need to, punch your pillow, scream. Create, feel, and give yourself what you need for that part of you that is feeling sad. Give yourself love. The part of you that is feeling sad is not the whole you. Acknowledge that. You can choose to feel happy and full of love.

For a LifeLine appt., contact me @ dgagala@comcast.net.

Infinite Love & Gratitude!
Debbie
Certified LifeLine Practitioner
dgagala@comcast.net
www.infinitelove&gratitude.com





Friday, October 2, 2009

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall

When I look into the mirror, what I usually see is not what is on the outside but what is on the inside. What is on the inside is a reflection of what I am feeling. What I am feeling is often directly related to what others are reflecting back to me. However what others reflect to us is filtered through our perception of what is really there. (What others see and do is not always how we see what they are doing and perceiving.) We judge and perceive. It is these judgments and perceptions that are usually clouding the truth that allows us to see pure love. Pure love is all that is true. All else is our illusion and distortion of the truth. When we have that muddled reflection it is hard to believe there is a higher truth and that Love is really there for us.

I had a day like that yesterday. I knew, the messages I was receiving were false. I knew that it was my perception that needed to change. As I went through the day, I allowed it to be. I did not like what I was seeing, which is good, because that means that I want something more. Anytime we don't feel positive and great it means that we want and are ready to change. We may not always know how to make that change and the perception that we are stuck or victims keeps us trapped and unhappy.

Yesterday, I needed to listen and to my emotions. Let me try to explain. I am constantly raising my own consciousness to a higher level. I do not want to live any other way than in peace and love. However, by setting that standard, I am often faced with feelings that are inconsistent with peace and love. Annoyed, frustrated, angry, overwhelmed, disappointed, used and the list can go on and on. What I needed was a day to just be human and to be okay with whatever came my way. A day free of judgement, of analysis, of thought. What I mostly felt was tired. I was tired of working so hard. I felt numb. I was glad to go to sleep last night, I needed the rest.

So today, I realize that it is okay that what I see in the mirror does not adequately reflect my true inner self. My LifeLine session was one on forgiveness and acceptance of the "dance of life". The dance reflects where I have been which is the building blocks of my current state of health. It is reflecting what I need to learn and to grow. I have choice in the present moment which shows me the opportunities before me and challenges me to adequately reflect my true inner self. At the end of my session I felt joy at the awesome experience of life and a future of freedom, peace and love.

It is truly a journey. We may all become saints, princes and princesses one day. But the only way to become that is to love who we are so much that it is reflected in each and every action, word and thought that make us who we are. Then and only then are the emotions of annoyed, frustrated, angry, overwhelmed, etc. not even recognized in our perceptions. The blessings are in disguise and the silver lining here is that these very emotions that we judge unwanted are the same ones that teach and challenge us to be their polar opposite. We do not like them because they really do not resonate with our truth and heart's desire which is pure love. Did you really hear that? Those emotions are not really you and that is why they bother you and why you want to get rid of them.

So, as you look into the mirror today, who do you see. More importantly, do you wish to see past your perceptions, through the emotions and find the blessings hiding there for you. You must choose the journey to rise above these emotions and to choose love. Love of yourself. This is what all healing is about.

The reflections in the mirror show the choice between living in love and being connected to Source which is Pure Love or to living in fear and pain.

I work with others to help them to unlock their full potential and why they may not be feeling love and joy in each and every moment. This is not counseling or life coaching. I work with the subconscious and emotions of the body, mind and spirit. Your story and personal information is not shared. That remains yours. You will identify emotions and connect to them but will not need to tell me what situation is behind the emotion. It is possible and well within reach to release trapped emotions that are draining your energy. LifeLine finds the root causes of those emotions at a subconscious level, which means you are not now consciously aware of why they are there. The journey for each of us is unique. The journey is our life and how we choose to live it. To begin your LifeLine journey of transformation contact me: dgagala@comcast.net.

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Infinite Love & Gratitude!
Debbie
Certified LifeLine Practitioner
dgagala@comcast.net
www.infinitelove&gratitude.com
www.purposepassionvision.com (under construction)